I received an amazing message on my phone yesterday ……… it goes like this:
eBucks: Hi Wally. FNB rewarded you with eB220 for MAR’15 on all your qualifying purchases.
I read and re-read this message ……….. and only one thought came to mind – WHO ON EARTH IS WALLY? and ….. WHAT ON EARTH IS WALLY DOING IN MY PHONE?
Even though this is not my real phone, because my real phone was stolen by bad people in Cape Town, and is probably doing the rounds on ebay, OLX and, and, and. Which is exactly where I bought my new old phone and did the whole deal in Ratanga Junction parking lot …… where if you think about it, its the perfect place to do dodgy celphone deals ….. anyway.
Back to Wally, I have never been Wally, EVER, and now my trusted and long standing bank has decided to call me Wally, even though for many years they have been calling me Mrs T.J.
This whole Wally business just added to a funny feeling which has been hovering over me lately. I AM BECOMMING INVISIBLE. Its an odd feeling that as I age my purpose on this earth has become less and less. But I could always rely on my bank remembering my name NOW THIS!!!
My relationship with facebook is wonderful. Getting in touch with old friends and connecting with new friends. Seeing friends pictures, achievements, relationship status’s and just general ramblings really completes my day. But all of a sudden friend requests start popping up from people who I really don’t know. So you start thinking ………..
a. Did I meet this person sometime in the last week and don’t remember?
b. Does someone out there just like the look of me and decided to become my friend?
c. Did I go to school/varsity with this person and they have changed a tad?
d. Is there a lonely person out there, and if I become their friend I might make their day?
So I push “Accept friend request” ……….. POINK …. seconds later a post that I am tagged in appears on my wall – MY WALL – selling raybans. Flippit, I am gutted, the only reason that the person wanted to be my friend was to sell flippen sunglasses. POINK …. I de-friend them. So now I do a test ……… I accept a whole lot of friend requests, and low and behold a million posts appear on MY WALL, all selling raybans.
Is this stupid? no, the Rayban gurus are definitely onto something here. Is it irritating? Absolutely. Is it hurtful? Well yes, here I am trying to slot back into a meaningful slot in my universe and along comes the Rayban Train and puts me into the “We only need you if you buy something” slot. What on earth gave them the idea that I needed a new pair of sunglasses? I am gutted.
I really believe that parents shouldn’t live their lives through their children. But hell, their lives are far more interesting than mine. And how can we not be involved???? we are the driving force behind their adventures ……….. LITERALLY …. we drive them to horse riding, cycling, parties, shopping, concerts etc, etc. Then we are expected to not get involved whist they are doing the adventure bit of adventure, then we drive them home.
Surely parents there is more to life here.
I cook, I clean, I drive, I mother, I wife. I am on one committee that my one sole purpose is to put up street signs once a month. For one of the kids sporting activities I have even been cut out of the commitment part ……. I pay, I drive, I have no say.
Its time to take my life back. BIG TIME.
In a recent episode of Greys Anatomy (Yes I still watch Greys Anatomy). One of the sexy brain surgeons has to do a really tricky brain op on one of her colleagues. She is nervous, she is scared and the whole world is watching her to see if she can pull it off. She is standing in the room where they clean their hands before slicing into a brain. Her legs are slightly apart, her arms are at her waist, her fists are clenched, her elbows and slightly back. Her shoulders are are square and her head facing firmly forward, slightly tilted towards the sun. “What are you doing?” asks her intern. “This is the Superhero pose.” She answers.
Apparently it is proven that people who take up this pose before a challenge or a task, do significantly better at what they want to accomplish. So, I am going to start using this pose and those 5 posing minutes are going to be used to brainstorm my “take back my life plan”.
Now if you think about it, Clark Kent, when he gets the gist of a drama playing out or that Louis Lane is at the mercy of some baddy, he doesn’t go umm haaaa mmmmm, he dashes into the nearest telephone booth, strips down and soars to the drama. He definitely doesn’t over think his future actions he just (here is that word again) SOARS with his cape flying and fixes what ever needs fixing, whether it is stopping a speeding train full of victims or just to make sure his chick is fine.
So back to Wally, people with the name Wally just don’t SOAR. As in “Look, here comes WALLY soaring to the rescue!”. Nope this just doesn’t work.
FNB, my name is Tanya, spelt T-A-N-Y-A, and I am going to strike my superhero pose and rescue my life before I shrink into nothingness.
TANYA IS GOING TO SOAR.